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Trigger warning?

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magnoliapearl:

freedomfightersonic:

literallysokka:

OH MY GODDDDD this is a dream come true

IMAGINE HOW CUTE SONIC WILL LOOK OMFG BYE

DAMNNNNNN

IT’S FROM A PARODY ACCOUNT IT’S NOT REAL

magnoliapearl:

freedomfightersonic:

literallysokka:

OH MY GODDDDD this is a dream come true

IMAGINE HOW CUTE SONIC WILL LOOK OMFG BYE

DAMNNNNNN

IT’S FROM A PARODY ACCOUNT IT’S NOT REAL

The problem I am seeing here- the place where this is unraveling- is that for men who are *hearing* about the traumatic experiences of women, and experiencing secondary traumatization over it, where do they go with those feelings? Who do they talk about their own (totally valid!) emotional reactions to feeling overwhelmed with the things that the women they care about- or just women in general- have to deal with?

Because if the answer is women, things go downhill.

I see the whole #NotAllMen http://time.com/79357/not-all-men-a-brief-history-of-every-dudes-favorite-argument// #YesAllWomen https://twitter.com/hashtag/YesAllWomen?src=hash as being basically a conversation that plays out this way:

Woman to man: Here is my experience!

Man: *Listening*

Man (internal dialogue): Holy shit, that is really awful and I feel really bad about it. I need to go talk to someone about this. I’ll go to the person that I usually go to to share intimate/emotional aspects of myself.

Man to woman: Hearing this makes me feel really bad! And now I’m worried about how you think of me! #NotAllMen are like that! (Importantly, I’m not!)

Woman (internal dialogue): Wow, I just shared a part of myself and my experience and now this guy expects me to help him feel better about the experience of listening to me? And also seems to be devaluing the integrity of what I’m telling him?

Woman to man: Fuck off. Seriously. For Real. #YesAllWomen.

- Notallmen/Yesallwomen, secondary trauma and relearning everything for the sake of not killing each other | All the things, all mixed up (via pahein)

I highly recommend reading the whole post linked at the bottom! It’s a seriously fascinating and informative read!

(Source: sandandglass)

Wonderball 101 - Tables Turnover
Quad City DJs vs Platinum Star Games feat. Fort Minor

botanicsage:

Finally got my hands on a copy of this great game. A shame that I won’t be able to beat the final boss until my replacement gamepad wall charger comes in, though. >:Y

seriouslyamerica:

The Rugrats don’t have time for your gender-essentialist bullshit.

Two Star Uniform: Mako Mankanshoku

(Source: asukashikinamis)

Hey! Friendly reminder to use gender neutral language when referring to animals as they can not communicate their preferred pronouns. (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*:・゚✧

Anonymous

coolator:

cats literally have no concept of gender identity

please go outside

laughingsquid:

‘If We Won’, Newcastle Brown Ale Campaign Imagines What America Would Be If Great Britain Won the Revolutionary War

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